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How much of our career path is destiny and how much is
free will? In my opinion, it is 50/50. We are given
a life map at the beginning of our lives, and there
are things we are meant to learn, people we are meant
to meet, work we are meant to perform. But many of us
are not tuned into ourselves and the signs that are
presented to us. We often miss important information,
and miss out on those lessons, people, and jobs.
The use of free will comes about when we are presented
with options. Choices are really curves in our path.
We can choose to take the long route, or the quicker,
easier route. No path is better, it just impacts how
quickly we move along our route, but remember: when
climbing the mountain of self discovery, taking the
long, hard, scenic route can be a rather enjoyable,
enlightening experience.
Confucius once said, “Choose a career you love and you
will never work another day in your life.” If you
think about this, what a different experience we could
have in our work lives. If we actually loved the work
we were doing, it wouldn’t seem so much like our
traditional concept of work (drudgery/pain). Think
about it! How many jobs have you had that you dreaded
going to? What are some of the differences between a
job, a career, and your life’s work? Let’s define it.
A job is something you get paid to do (money is the
primary motivation). It is easy to perform because
there is not much challenge, and you will eventually
find other work to do.
It may or may not fully engage you. Spirit may or may
not be present.
A career is something you get paid to do that is
viewed as a profession (status or identity is the
motivation). It may provide more challenge, but after
a while, you may get burned out, and choose to stop
doing it.
It may or may not fully engage you. Spirit may or may
not be present.
Your life’s work is something you do whether you get
paid for it or not (your soul’s need for expression is
the motivation). There is plenty of challenge and
personal meaning. You will always want to do it.
It definitely fully engages you. Spirit is present.
Remember that a job can get you started toward your
life’s work. In fact, jobs provide the very important
element of exposure to different kinds of industries.
Take for example, a woman who started out working in a
department store as a clerk, who moved into a
management position, and finally created her life’s
work as an independent contractor who trains others in
customer service skills.
Get Smart!
If everyone in the world could create their life’s
work (and they can!)—if everyone could find what they
were meant to do in life, how much happier and
fulfilled we all would be!
Michelle L. Casto, Whole Life Coach, Speaker & Author
"Specializing in self empowerment and soul excavation"
Get Smart! About Modern Stress Management (2002)
Get Smart! About Modern Career Development(2000)
Get Smart! About Modern Romantic Relationships (1999)
www.getsmartseries.com / www.brightlightcoach.com
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